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Confidence is attractive. Show her that you believe in yourself and in your abilities.
Show her that you are interested in her goals and that you are willing to support her in achieving them.
It may take time to break through her defenses and win her over. Be patient and persistent, and don't give up.
There are a few reasons why these women are so hard to impress. First, they are all highly intelligent and discerning. They are not easily fooled by superficiality or flattery.
Don't try to be someone you're not, because she will be able to see through it.
Show her that you have achieved your goals and that you are ambitious.